The Oil Bar, A Custom Blend Experience

Create your own blend that supports where you are and what you are currently moving through. 


How it works & What is included:


1. Choose a flower (optional)

2. Choose a crystal (optional)

3. Choose 1 - 2 essential oils for your blend (15 drops of oil)


I will use my gift for blending to create your oil in a 10ml roll on bottle and label it for you. All blends are crafted when ordered in my Northern NJ studio.


Ingredients used


Organic Golden Jojoba Oil is the carrier oil. 

Essential Oils (Organic where noted) sourced from Eden Botanicals (no MLM oils)


Ratio of Essential Oil to Carrier Oil:


Your blend will have a conservative 5% ratio of essential oils which means each roll on bottle will have: 15 drops of essential oil and 285 drops of carrier oil.  (A 10 ml roll on bottle holds approx. 300 drops of oil).


Blends I love:



Patchouli / Lavender


Cinnamon / Rose Absolute


Lavender / Bergamot


Cedarwood / Rose Absolute


Tangerine / Sandalwood


Frankincense / Cypress


Peppermint / Lavender


Eucalyptus / Bergamot


Bella's Custom Blends:


Tension Headache Blend - Peppermint 11 drops, Lavender 4 drops, Clear Quartz Crystals


Stop the Over-Worrying - Bergamot 11 drops, Patchouli 4 drops, Amethyst Crystals, Rose Petals


Go With The Flow - When nothing is going your way, this blend helps you change your direction and approach. Wintergreen 1 drop, Cypress 1 drop, Bergamot 12 drops, Clear Quartz (for this one, please choose Cypress & Bergamot oils. Let me know you want the Go With The Flow blend in the Note to Seller section, and I will add the Wintergreen).


(more blends are coming as I create them)


The Oil Bar, A Custom Blend Experience

  • Oil Selections & Emotional Aspects:

    I would encourage you to study the oils on your own as well. There are so many teachers, books, and websites that hold information on each oil here. Also, working for a time with an oil will help you get to know it more intimately.


    Choose 1 or 2 oils:


    Peppermint - Invigorates the mind, body, and spirit. Excellent for clarity of mind, taking deep breaths, and strength in dealing with emotional pain. A great oil to use when you need to stay focused and get things done. Pairs well with: Bergamot, Tangerine, Clove, Lavender. & Patchouli.


    Tangerine - Mood lifter. Encourages creative flow and spontaneity. A lighthearted, joyful, and optimistic oil. Use this oil to help lift you out of a bad mood. Pairs well with: Clove, Peppermint, Rose, Lavender, Frankincense, Cinnamon, Cassia.


    Eucalyptus - An oil that supports breath, wellness, healing, liberation, and taking ownership / responsibility. An awesome oil for when you are feeling under the weather or doing deep breathing / meditation. Pairs well with Lavender, Cinnamon, & Cypress.


    Sandalwood - Known as the Oil of Sacred Devotion, Sandalwood has been used for centuries in prayer, meditation, and spiritual worship. It helps deeply calm the mind and body. This one is awesome for anxiety, relaxation, and meditation. Pairs well with Frankincense, Patchouli, Cedarwood, Lavender, Tangerine, Bergamot, Cinnamon.


    Bergamot - Cleanses stagnant feelings and limiting beliefs about oneself. If you are feeling down in the dumps about yourself, this oil will help you move away from self judgement and into self acceptance. Try this oil when you are being super hard on yourself. Also a mood shifter. Pair well with: Lavender, Rose, Frankincese, Sandalwood & Patchouli.


    Lavender - The great calmer and communicator, Lavender helps us in self expression and relaxation. This oil encourages honesty, open communication, peace of mind, and a sense of calm. Used for deep relaxation, calming anxiety, and for help with sleep. Pairs well with all the oils offered here.


    Patchouli (Organic) - Supportive in fully taking presence in your physical body. Helps in releasing judgements and issues related to the body. Supports confidence, body connection and acceptance, physical expression. Use when you are stepping into braveness, confidence, or as a perfume. Pairs well with Rose, Lavender, Sandalwood, Cedarwood, Bergamot, Tangerine.


    Rose Absolute (Moroccan) - The Oil of Divine Love, Rose is the oil with the highest vibration and is considered a powerful heart healer. Supports giving and receiving love, healing, compassion, acceptance, and empathy. (I would suggest only 1-2 drops of Rose Absolute in your blend, as a tiny bit goes a long way). Love is the root of all things. Pairs well with Lavender, Tangerine, Clove, Cedarwood, Sandalwood, Patchouli, Bergamot & Frankincense.


    Frankincense - A revelatory oil that distills everything down to the truth. Supports us when we feel abandoned or forgotten. Enhances prayer, meditation, and spiritual awareness. An oil of truth and protection. A great oil for prayer, meditation, going deep within for the answers. Pairs well with Rose, Cedarwood, Sandalwood, Clove, Cinnamon, Tangerine, Cypress.


    Cinnamon (Organic) - Cinnamon nurtures feelings around our sexuality and sexual energy. It helps us face or heal where there has been repression and trauma. An oil for body acceptance, intimacy, and feeling connected to our sexuality. An awesome massage oil. Use this one when you are feeling sexy or in the mood.


    Cypress (Organic) - An oil that creates energetic flow where there is stagnancy in the heart, mind, and spirit. Cypress helps us to be more flexible, trusting, in flow with life, and adaptable. This oil is great to use when you are stuck in a cycle and want to break out of it. Pairs well with Lavender, Frankincense, Eucalyptus.


    Clove Bud (Organic): Clove oil helps us feel strength and confidence when creating and holding steady to our boundaries. Clove helps us work on loving ourselves while learning to not care what others think about us. If your emotional edges are feeling raw and jagged, Clove will help smooth (soothe?) them out and sift through your current situation. This oil is super potent so it is used sparingly. Pairs well with: Cinnamon, Peppermint, Frankincense, Sandalwood, & Tangerine.


    Cassia: This oil has a warming effect on the skin. Use when you are feeling tender and need support in the form of heat. Cassia helps us recognise our sense of self and our inner strength. Its fragrance profile is similar to Cinnamon (and pairs well with the same oils as Cinnamon)


    Cedarwood: Helps us open up and trust, let our guard down a bit. Cedarwood helps us become a part of something bigger. It enocourages community. Pairs well with Sandalwood, Frankincense, Rose, Patchouli, & Lavender.


    Geranium (Temporary Oil for February) - An oil that helps soothe & ease anxiety. Feeling angry? Geranium will dispel feelings of anger or any emotions that feel too overwhelming. Also helps us begin to trust again. Pairs well with Sandalwood, Tangerine, Ruby Red Grapefruti & Bergamot.


    Ruby Red Grapefruit (Temporary Oil for February) - As with all citrus oils, this one uplifts our mood & spirits. But also, it is an oil that helps us remember to honor our bodies, to view ourselves with love & treat ourselves with the utmost care. Pairs well with Sandalwood, Patchouli, Rose Absolute, Cedarwood & Clove.

  • Add On's:

    Choose 1 of Each:

    Flower Petals - Lavender / Rose

    Crystals - Amethyst (spiritual awareneness activator, amulet of protection) / Peach Moonstone (soothing, calming, heightens curiosity around cycles and intuition)  / Clear Quartz (brings clarity to all situations, invites lightness and truth)

  • Shipping:

    USA: $5.00 for First Class Mail (3-7 days), $8.40 for Priority Flat Rate (1-3 days). Choose your ship method after you enter PayPal details and before order is placed. All orders are shipped via the USPS.


    Canada: A $18.00 USD shipping charge will be applied to your total order at checkout. Your order will be shipped to you via first class international mail, USPS.


    Shipping days are Tuesday through Friday.


    **All orders are charged 6.6% NJ Sales Tax


    International, outside continental US + Canada? I'd be happy to mail you products. Email me first for a shipping quote:


    Disclaimers: Made to be used as a perfume oil. Please do not apply to face or near eyes. Do not ingest. The product is not meant to be used as an aide for any medical conditions.